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Hi Juleen, I have been in the relationship with my partner for 6 years. We have went through a few difficult and challenging times. Nevertheless we started to live together December 2021. Before that we were on and off the relationship since I had to move abroad for work for 3 years. I love Tanja from the bottom of my heart and I was willing to adapt changes in me to keep be with her. I am 53 years old and she is 38 years old. We both work for the same company. This is what has been happening during our relationship.1. I am divorced with 3 children. And I carry of course some issues financially from the past, like paying school, paying for kids and some other obligations, that Tanja knew about as we started our relationship2. Her vision of a Husband is that he secures the family and goes to work and provides for them. And that’s what I am doing when it comes to paying rent and so on. She is not willing to put any money or financial resources in this relationship although she works and is pretty wealthy. The problem is that we had several discussions when it comes to go on holiday for example where she expected a higher standard of holiday than the one I booked.3. Since 2 weeks we had a discussion about my daughter who’s is 12 years old as I wanted to spend Father’s Day with her and Tanja. We have had plans to spend that day together with a friend of hers. But when I suggested to take my daughter she refused and blamed me for making my daughter more important than her. The result of that discussion was that she left the apartment a to her friends house and decided to find a place of her own which she already have. So now we are living separately.4. We spoke a few times and she wants me to accept certain conditions to continue the relationship and be able to win her heart again.5. She hardly speaks to me today and if we do mostly we end up discussing againThis is how I see it from my part. No matter what I did to satisfy her. Mostly some other problem came that I need to change. She is mostly insecure and unsatisfied. I have accepted the way she is but she didn’t accept the way I am.There are a lot of other things too. That’s why I need an advise to be able to take a decision here. I can’t go on like this unless you see a solution that maybe I might be doing wrong or maybe I can still do something to save our relationship.I would even be ready for a call sesión if necessary.Thank you very much

Hi Juleen, I am not sure what your answer should mean. I love Tanja and all I am trying to find out is that if you see a solution that could change her way of thinking about our relationship. I can see that she suffers from insecurity that leads to being unsatisfied. So my question to you is as a professional, do you see that there would be a way to change that and if yes how. Thank you