Recent Questions by DrFee

I am 65 years old and have an essential tremor. I conducted research on Mayo Clinic’s website and got a pretty good basic idea what essential tremor is. See: http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/essential-tremor/DS00367/METHOD=print

In my case, I cannot write, I can only type slowly, but cannot hold a cup of coffee in a steady manner, and cannot eat without my hands shaking because of the essential tremor.

I am a widower and about to date few a women in the near future, one at a time-this is the good news.
The bad news is about my anxiety because of the essential tremor, which based on my past experience appeared to turn off the women whom I dated.


The essential tremor in my case was noticed immediately and the first question posed to me by my dates was: Are you nervous because of our first meeting?, to which I answered –not at all, which was true, but the first impression sent to my dates was nevertheless negative, at least based on my belief.

More knowledgeable women asked me whether I have a Parkinson Disease. My answer was no based on few medical experts’ observation.

In the past, my explanation was that the tremor was caused by certain medications, which was taking and my answer as true. However, the women wanted to know what medication I am taking and why?

My next date is on Sunday October 21 2012 at 3 pm. Until then, I will try to find out how to reduce the tremor not medically but cognitively.

My question is how to explain to m,y date why my hands are shaking and how to change the topic of our conversation fast.

I was thinking about the following options

1. To deliver a subliminal message to my date at the first moment to let her understand that tremor will happen. For example: Ask her you nervous because this is our first meeting? If she ask me the same question I will say not at all, it may appears to be so but it s not. Let’s start chatting about body language which is associated with impressions about joy in life and later will explain to you why people may get the wrong impression because of certain body movement which apples to me.
2. I will try to avoid eating or drinking any think which will cause tremor by giving instructions to the waiter privately.

What do you think?

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