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I dont necessarily have a relationship question..more of an after shock..im 21 two little boys and no family left my moms a drug addict. I got with a man 11 years older who pushed drugs on me abused me very bad and locked me in his truck where i wasnt allowed to leave for 3 months he called cps and got my kids taken because we were homeless and the boys were staying with friends my kids are my whole life without them i cant be i took him back and he went to jail i went to rehab where i was diagnosed with ptsd got out was so scared i couldnt leave my apartment but couldnt be alone in it either and i dont like being around people but when im alone im sad that im alone i sit in my car because thats where i feel safe unless its dark i hate being with people but i hate being alone i need someone to tell me how to fix me..i just wanna laugh and smile and have friends maybe you cant even help me with this but its worth a shot

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Counselor: John-Michaels, Counselor (LPC) replied 3 years ago

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I am so sorry you have been through all of this. I am assuming you still have no custody of your children. Am I understanding that you are still living with your mother. Does she know how you feel?Are you receiving you continue your treatment?

Customer reply replied 3 years ago

No i dont have my boys they are with some people i met down here who iwn a church i used to be a preschool teacher at and they are like parents to me. Yea right now after leaving i am with my mom shes not good to be around she is a drug addict and will use any money i have she lies a lot and is always a victim im from michigan and 3 years ago i moved to muncie indiana because she was with a very abusive man and my 16 year old brother stabbed and killed him so i moved here to help him i had all my life together i was the best mom i could be i had a house a car and a job even tho nobody else in the house worked i made it happen troy took it all and ruined everything i had after leaving the voa i asked my dcs worker at least 16 times to refer me to some form if out patient treatment at least 40 times about some therapy shes really good to me but sucks at getting things done fast like. I dont know how to deal with all these emotions i have i really suck at emotion my mom was always dependent on a man and they usually beat her or she beats them i dont believe you hit people you love but for some reason i always think they love me when they do it my worst quality is i love to hard its so hard to let go of somebody toxic or not i just let everybody do whatever they want and the sad part really us half of them i could definitely defend myself against im not a weak person but at this point i feel like its better to shut up about things then to fight and yell i just dont want to deal with the drama sometimes i really sit and think for hours trying to find one single reason im still here or one single person who worries about me im not even exaggerating like most do i had an apartment a while back and i swear to god not one person called or checked on me for over a week i could have laud dead in there and nobody would have known and thats so hard to except so i let people pretend to love me to use me because for some reason i feel fake love is better then being alone...i have no support nobody believes i can do this and nobody sees how unhappy and close to the edge i am and thats how i know they dont love me

Counselor: John-Michaels, Counselor (LPC) replied 3 years ago

Once agaiN, i am so sorry you are in this predicament. There is help out ther for you. You are going to have to make it happen though. Be persistent.if you must, talk to your worker’s supervisor. Do not take no for an answer. Please this number for help,(###) ###-#### It is a hotline for women like you. If they cannot help they will know who can.

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