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Hi my girlfriend broke up with me a month ago and now she is dating someone else

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I gave her space for 7-10 days with no contact

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And she started dating someone else

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Counselor: Rafael-E-Therapist, Psychotherapist replied 2 months ago
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Hello, I'm Rafael. Thanks for asking your question. I'm here to support you. I'm carefully reviewing your question now, and will respond ASAP. (Information posted here is not private or confidential but public).

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Counselor: Rafael-E-Therapist, Psychotherapist replied 2 months ago

I'm very sorry to know this happened. Could you please tell me more about the reason for the break-up?

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Counselor: Rafael-E-Therapist, Psychotherapist replied 2 months ago

For how long were you dating, and was this the first time she ends the relationship?

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Counselor: Rafael-E-Therapist, Psychotherapist replied 2 months ago

It is obviously very sad and frustrating to see that only after a month of the end of your relationship she is dating someone else. I imagine you were not expecting this kind of behavior from her, right? Were there any red flags telling you this end may happen and that she could so briefly after leaving you find another person?

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Counselor: Rafael-E-Therapist, Psychotherapist replied 2 months ago

How was your communication after those 10 days without talking to each other? Did she give you hope you may get back together?

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