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My Girlfriend refuses to acknowledge my feelings regarding maintaining related with her Ex's. This is 8 years later so I've decided to end it.

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I'm wrong for asking her my girl to let go of the relationship with her Ex's?

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I've told her how I felt from the start . She claims not to play well with others but that doesn't seem to apply to her ex

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Hi,

I'm Dr. Jackie, a mental health therapist, interpersonal communication professor, and relationship expert. I see you only gave it about 30 minutes for someone to respond. Did you really have the wrong site or were you hoping that someone would answer sooner? If the latter, I apologize for us experts on here. Often we have full time jobs (or multiple jobs) so we are not just on here full time waiting. But I'm on now and happy to help, if you would like to chat in real time.

I can also just leave you some thoughts regarding your question instead. Please let me know your preference so that I can do as you request.

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