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To begin with, I asked her to do it to me instead of me doing it to her years ago. Then we finally started going out last year and we had sex, but I did it to her. First time, I got on top of her and tried to seduce her and told me to get off cause she didn’t consent but she did for all the other times, She then met this other man And had sex with. She’s 17 and in high school. Also does drugs. I’m 19 and working a full time job. I got her many things and most of the money she said would pay me back. She never did. She’s threatened me to tell my parents and all my support friends Including my church pastor have told me to drop her.

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Submitted: 5 months ago.Category: Relationship
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