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We were doing an intimate thing and I told him that we were doing it wrong then he said he was going to block me but he hasn’t

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Counselor: Carlett F, Counselor replied 4 months ago

Hi,

You and him were doing an "intimate thing", I am assuming it was sex or an act leading up to sex. The male ego can be very fragile when it comes to sex or their self concept of their ability to please or satisfy their partner. You telling him that the two of you were doing it "wrong" probably hurt his ego. He took it as if you were saying "he" was doing it wrong. He then felt like getting back at you and hurting you too and the way to hurt you was to tell you he was going to block you, but obviously he does not really want to block you because he has not done so.

I suggest apologizing to him. Let him know it was not a personal criticism of him. Give it a little time after apologizing, meaning, give him some space to sort out his feelings, he will likely get passed it after a while.

Once you are back spending time together, be mindful to only speak words that are affirming to him...

I hope this helps,

Carlett

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