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Hello , so I recently started going out with this guy who just broke up with his ex. The first two dates he didnt even kiss me and the third one I made the move and kissed him and ended up having sex with him. When I asked him why he didn't kiss me, he said that he just broke up and wasn't stable emotionally. But when we hang out, we have so many similarities and we end uo talking and enjoying our conversations for hours. What do I do in this situation?

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