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My partner is jealous of my relationship with my grown son.

My partner is jealous...

My partner is jealous of my relationship with my grown son. He told him to P**** off when he visited me from interstate. And now he thinks he has done nothing wrong

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I have told him he needs help or we will split up. He has agreed, but he is still verbally abusing me

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He drinks to soothe his anxiety, but it makes everything worse

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Customer reply replied 3 months ago
Hi AshleighHe has now told me go suck my sons c*** if that’s what I want to do. He has agreed to see a psychiatrist

From your question it is evident that you care deeply about your family. It seems like you have some significant concerns regarding your husband and your relationship. I am sure that his behavior has led to many negative feelings.

From your question it seems like you are aware of the fact that your husband has some traits of a verbally abusive partner. This can be a tricky situation to find yourself in. In mature, open and positive relationships, partners allow each other to grow and develop openly, they do not hinder each other from connecting with others and they do not use abusive language or actions to demean their partner.

Your relationship with your partner may be important to you, but it should not be nearly as important as your relationship with yourself. Being in a relationship is meant to enhance your happiness (not create it and not detract from it). I think it is important that you seek some help perhaps a social worker, psychologist or even a friend and speak about this situation you find yourself in (I find it especially of concern that this situation gets worse when your partner drinks).

It’s also important for you to start developing a positive view of yourself, work on your self-esteem by being kinder to yourself (this can be especially hard when you have a partner who puts you down). The best thing I can advise is to get hold of one of the following books that will help you on your journey towards self-discovery and a more positive view of yourself:

- Change your thoughts, change your life by Wayne Dyer

- Ask and it is Given by Esther Hicks

- The Secret by Rhonda Byrne

I sincerely ***** ***** I have helped you and that I have earned my 5 star rating today! Please remember to rate my service by selecting the 5 stars at the top of the screen (rating me now does not close your question). We can continue here until you are satisfied, simply use the reply box and let me know.

Wishing you the best of luck and much more happiness than not.

Thank you and all the best

Ashleigh

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