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I have a guy been dating for a month He asked me for 2000…

I have a guy been...
I have a guy been dating for a month
He asked me for 2000 dollars to make rent
He seems like a good guy but I do not feel this is a normal request when dating for such a short time
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2/19/2018
John-Michaels
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Hello, my name is John. I am an LPC. NO IT ISNT! I personally would live on a park bench before I would ask for a loan. The amount seems outlandish too. As a side issue, I never loan anything I can’t afford to give away. Anyway, this took a lot of nerve to sm. I would break it off probably, but I wools definitely not lixn Jim’s time.
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I would definitely not loan him the money.”
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Customer reply replied 4 months ago
I want to help but I am not engaged or married to openly give this kind of money seems weird
We spent the weekend together and the majority of places I picked up the tab
I flew to see him so I had to pay for airline and hotel which I did not mind but then I picked up the majority of the other stuff as well please help
Customer reply replied 4 months ago
Are you there
I’m sorry, had to go away for a second. Give me a bit to look at you response.
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I think you draw the line and split the difference in the future. Either he pay his fair share or it is over.
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Customer reply replied 4 months ago
But giving him 2000 for rent is crazy right
I’m sorry, but this guy is a mooch. It takes a special kinda of person to ask for $2000 rent money, and I’m not talking a good kind of special.
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Customer reply replied 4 months ago
How could I have been so wrong I was thinking of doing it
I did not want to lose him but in my head something said no
Love is blind. I am figuring you wanted to make it work so bad, you ignored the signs.
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Customer reply replied 4 months ago
I did he said I will pay you back
I can’t get a loan since I do not have credit I only use crash and pre pay cards
Well, I wouldn’t trust him at all.
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Customer reply replied 4 months ago
I thought I could read people but obviously not for some reaSon
Sometimes we see what we want to see. It happens to all of us. Don’t beat yourself up.
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Customer reply replied 4 months ago
Nobody should ask for this money so early in a relationship
My thoughts are they should never ask for money.
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Customer reply replied 4 months ago
Should I say anything and give a reason or say nothing
Yeah just tell him you do not loan money to friends.
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Customer reply replied 4 months ago
He says he loves me but maybe that is not true
Well, it may be true, but there are strings attached.
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Customer reply replied 4 months ago
I am sure it will be over if no money
Yep
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Customer reply replied 4 months ago
That is unfortunate I really loved him but I have to take care of me and my kids
you do.
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Customer reply replied 4 months ago
I should walk away
That is your choice . I think you just say no to the money at least, and let his decision direct yours.
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Customer reply replied 4 months ago
I told him I would try but did not feel comfortable at the witching hour blowing me up but then quiet
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