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My wife and I have been married 40 years. In sorting photos I noticed while organizing our old photos that she kept a number of photos (7 or 8) of an old boy friend. She dated him off and on for about 1 1/2 years. She broke up with him when we started dating. Should I ask her why she kept the photos? Faithfulness is not a concern.

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Should I ask her why she kept them? Given the amount of time that has passed 43 years since she dated him am I being ridiculous?

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