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Hi,I have a question that pertains to compromising in a marriage. I'll start by saying when I meant my wife I was open to moving out of state. We got married and last year my company relocated to NC from MD. The wife was excited for the move. She is originally from OH. I myself was having second thoughts being we have a 1 year old then and hated taking them away from family. My wifes family lived in TX at the time. I went along with the move and I have not been happy from day one. I have been homesick and just don't want to be here. I like my job and NC isn't a bad place to live I just want to go back to MD. We have a second child on the way which is making things worse for me with wanting to go back. I talked to my wife about it and she says she does not want to go back and it's just what I want. I agreed that it's not fair to her, however I don't know what the best compromise is in this situation. I feel she would have went back however her mom and dad moved to NC 4 months after we did which was a surprise to me. I kind of think they had this all planned just was waiting for us to get NC. So my question is there a compromise that I can come up with that works for both? I feel I'm stuck here, being my wife won't leave and if we call it quits in our marriage over it, I'm still not going to go back being my kids will be in NC.Thanks,
Mike
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Counselor: P. Simmons, Attorney replied 6 months ago
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Counselor: P. Simmons, Attorney replied 6 months ago

I am sorry for this dilemma. But not sure I understand your specific question....is this a "relationship" question or a "legal" question.

I can field the legal issues...but may be in over my head if you are looking for a person licensed in couples counseling.

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Customer reply replied 6 months ago
This is a relationship question, sorry thought I hit the relationship button. Anyway you can send it over to a counselor?
Counselor: P. Simmons, Attorney replied 6 months ago

can do, just a moment...

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Customer reply replied 6 months ago
thank you!
Counselor: P. Simmons, Attorney replied 6 months ago

:)

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Customer reply replied 6 months ago
Do I have to go to another page or stay on this one for the new expert?
Counselor: P. Simmons, Attorney replied 6 months ago

They will switch this question/page...it may take several mins before they make the switch. no need to leave or ask a new question.

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Customer reply replied 6 months ago
still nothing?
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