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I have been in a relationship with a 50 year old woman. She seamed all into one me butt she started to get flakey. She didn't show up a couple of times. I asked her if she was seeing someone else. She said no. We have stopped seeing each other and I keep texting. She reading them and sometimes replies. It's almost like she don't respect me. What do I do?

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Counselor: TherapistJen, LCSW, CPC replied 7 months ago
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I don't think it's a matter of whether she respects you, it just may be that she has lost interest. I might send her a simple text and ask her if she is still interested in dating you and if she isn't then you will step aside and no longer reach out to her.
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