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Hello, I'm rob and need...
Hello, I'm rob and need some help as I don't know what to do.
Met this girl and went on a couple of dates and we hit it off straight away and enjoyed each others company.
However I received this message yesterday :
I’m so sorry I’m having trouble with my WhatsApp app it won’t let me send messages atm... so was going to message you once Ruben had gone to bed.
I don’t want to hurt you but I’d rather be honest then just say I don’t want to see you again with no explanation. So last night my sister and I ended up going into town for new year (Just to cheer her up really) I have to admit I drank a huge amount and have minimal memory of the whole night. I woke up this morning with my sisters mate in bed with me. It just made me realise that I don’t think I’m ready for a relationship of any kind and just enjoying being single. I’m so sorry but I thought being honest is probably best.
She said I can keep her number, I don't know what to do cause I really liked this girl and have said can take it slow due to she has had bad relationships before.
Please help
Submitted: 6 months ago.Category: Relationship
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