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He is a Gemini guy and I was talking to him on phone But I met him recently And we connected really well But he is taking so much time to open up He didn't call me after the day we met but called me today and said I want to take things slow. I was taking my space to think about things because I don't want to spoil this what we have. So he left me all confused. May be he didn't liked me enough ?

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Submitted: 7 months ago.Category: Relationship
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Hello, my name is John. Did he say he wanted to take things slowly? If he did, your best option is to honor his wishes. If you push him, it is likely to backfire and you push him away. Your best approach is give him the time he asks for. If he doesn’t contact you, you didn’t have him to begin with. Does that make sense?
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