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I have just broke up after 5 years and I would like to discuss what I should with someone

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Will the issue was 2 years ago I found my fiancé texting another man from work which made me not trust her we broke up then got back together after one month over the next two years I kept thinking king about this and I made us argue then I was about to buy a house for us 6 weeks ago and she said she didn’t want a house but to have a kid together I said no it’s better to buy a house so she left, it’s brrn two months and I keep calling texting and she thinks if she comes back will we fight again but she told me she loves me two days ago what do I do

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Counselor: John-Michaels, Counselor (LPC) replied 7 months ago
I’m sorry I never got back to you.
Honestly, if you pursue her, you are only going to chase her further away. I would let her know that I still want to pursue a relationship, but that I respect her wishes. I would give her a little bit of time and move on. If she cares about you she will come around. Of course you risk her moving on. If that is th case, she never was there for you to begin with. Does that make sense?
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