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My boyfriend and I have been dating since mid September, he has always told me to take this slow in this relationship I’m not even sure I understand what he means cause we both have already said I love you and have had sex... so what exactly is taking t slow mean to him?
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Maybe that means that he doesnt want to rush into a deeper commitment such as marriage...that he is happy with how tho vs are now and he loves you but dies not want to rush the next level.
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