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my ex bf (27yrs old) & I (35yrs old) were together for 1yr7mths. He left me cos he felt I wld nvr leave my husband (sexless marriage) and I made him stressed/uncertain/insecure - to choose him / my husband, my mind was unstable - depression, anxiety, OCD, though in the past he promised to wait for my divorce and I promised to divorce n be with him officially. I think he got tired hiding around / dating secretly because he really wanted a proper rship. He immediately got a new gf (his age) who was chasing him before we brokeup. After that I left my husband but it didn't change my ex bf's mind at all. Been 5 months now. He's in a serious rship with her and has serious plans to marry her. He promised to return to me if he leaves her but said most likely there's no chance he wld leave cos he loves her alot, she's very nice to him, and his parents like her alot. We still contact as frds though he asked me for sex in Sept twice - we did. Later I told him we shd stop since he wanted his gf, n I didn't want him to feel bad abt himself, n I wanted us to respect each other. Recently he said he doesn't love me anymore, and is letting go of his feelings for me. Now he is increasingly serious n sticky to his gf n contacting me lesser though we share a small online business. He doesn't even accept me tagging him on our Facebook memories (nth about rship).What's the chance like to get him back?Is he trying to erase me from his life?What should I do to get him back?
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