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The guy who came to my house on a second date is asking to spend time with me again on the weekend. I did not yet reply. He said that this time he will bring his guitar.
I am confused. I have mixed feelings for him and mostly I am not sure at all. He stayed too long and now bring his guitar where ? to my house again ? I am not clear if I should
give this another try. Dee
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11/16/2017
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Why does every date happen at your house? Someone wants to date you they can take you out for a proper dinner. Yes I am old-fashioned but I believe you are too.
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Customer reply replied 9 months ago
that is right. The jargan "bring guitar" , my first thoughts are , bring the guitar where ?
I texted him back saying ... "Where will this handsome guy bring his guitar ?" I said this because he referred to himself as handsome in his playful text. Will let you know what he replies
Customer reply replied 9 months ago
Just so you know , if it means anything ...
He brought dinner and flowers to my house when he was over but stayed way too long. It concerned me
Customer reply replied 9 months ago
I hope he doesn't want to bring it to my house, because one time at my house is one thing, but for this to be a constant habit isn't right for me
Seems like the desire is to create intimacy quickly. I am not sure that this is what you want for yourself.
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Customer reply replied 9 months ago
I don't have that desire.
Are you saying this is his desire ?
Oh I see what you mean
Customer reply replied 9 months ago
I almost missed that fact, thanks
I'm coming over last week and staying too long now wanting a second date and saying he will bring his guitar to your home it sounds to me that is interest mail I only in having some intimacy.
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Customer reply replied 9 months ago
It amazes me that I didn't see this clearly enough , thank you .
Will keep you updated. No, that isn't my agenda, but it seems like his.
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