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HI, I am really...

HI, I am really confused. I think there are mulitple danger signs for my wife at her new work. Recently our young daughter (who loves playing with moms handbag and shoes etc) picked a note off the floor that had fallen from moms handbag as she draggd it and brought it to me. It was basically a filthy note from a new work colleague saying that although they were friends now he would sooner or later be sleeping with her. Also she keeps talking about this one man, who she invited to our daughters birthday at the weekend. He was pretty off with me, although I tried to be friendly and not let anyone suspect I think it was th man who wrote the note. I am scared but also confused as I dont know what to do, or if I am over-reacting

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Submitted: 10 months ago.Category: Relationship
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