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Ok so let me get this straight. Your boyfriend excludes you from these social gatherings? He has aligned himself with the friend instead of you? He doesn't own up to any of the wrongdoing? There are secrets going on behind your back? Why are you moving in with him? Why are you in a relationship with him?
Well i see two things that can be done. If you want to stay in the relationship then you are going to have to drop the issue all together and pretend like everything is fine and accept that he will choose his friends over you. On the other hand, if you want to do the right thing and have a loving relationship where he puts you before friends, then you stay your ground and voice your concern and see if he changes and puts you first. If he doesn't change then the relationship will end. You can't change his friends, but he should be aligning with you instead of his friends.
Well if he chose your feelings and concerns into account over his friends. Also, he wouldn't exclude you from social gatherings.
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