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I am sorry to hear about your situation. I think the best action is to get down to the bottom of what transpired in January. I think you need clarification and answers as to what happend in that apartment. Something hurtful was said or done and it appears that it has yet to be resolved. So, probably your best course of action is to talk to everyone involved and get their take on what happened. Only then can you move forward as a family.
Either something happened and you don't realize it, or you are dealing with family that makes things up and is abusive. If something happened then someone should be willing to say what it was. If you are dealing with an abusive family then the best thing is to look out for your safety and remove yourself from all abusive people.
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