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I'm 20 and I'm about to marry my boy friend who is also 20

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I'm 20 and I'm about to marry my boy friend who is also 20 we have known each other for awhile and have been dating for about a year and I love him very much but for the past two and a half months we haven't had sex more then 2 maybe 3 times hes never been super sex orented and I do my best not to push when he's not in the mood but everything else is great so why does he not want sex
JA: The Psychologist will know what to do. Is there anything else important you think the Psychologist should know?
Customer: Not that I can think of

If it has been this way for a long time we can assume that this has less to do with you and more to do with his sex drive....people tend to assume that men always have a high sex drive, but this isn't always the case. He just may have a lower drive than you do. I would check in with him about it and let him know how you love him and how you desire a bit more intimacy and if there is anything you can do to encourage and inspire him in this way. Keep communicating as that is what marriage is all about.

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