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If it has been this way for a long time we can assume that this has less to do with you and more to do with his sex drive....people tend to assume that men always have a high sex drive, but this isn't always the case. He just may have a lower drive than you do. I would check in with him about it and let him know how you love him and how you desire a bit more intimacy and if there is anything you can do to encourage and inspire him in this way. Keep communicating as that is what marriage is all about.