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He is confused and guarded and I do think giving him space is what is needed...he comes back in when he feels good but then he gets spooked because he feels mistrust so he needs to ride those emotions and come back to you in his own way and own time...I would not contact him and let him have the space and reconnect when he is ready.
seee.... and it worked...you can be strong and let him come to you and not reach out to him...he needs some control.
I would try and refrain from those kinds of texts...its a bit heavy and he wants space not to be reminded what he should feel or your sadness....
Its too much and it's not giving space...giving space is not sending these texts but rather leaving things be so he can have the time he needs.
Just leave it...no more texts or calls he needs time.
No worries about screwing it up....don't beat yourself up just now give him what he has requested. His lack of response shows you he doesn't want this right now.
He still loves you just needs time to be on his own to feel trust again. give him that time and he may just come back around.
If he is in his head then giving him the time to work it out for himself is the only course. I would not remove him from social media...that would send the wrong signal. Just give him time and space.
no do not text him...if he initiates then you can respond naturally.
He has asked for space and you haven't given it...he does not know what he wants and you ask what he wants from you...He may end the relationship or he may not..your best chance is not to reach out to him and give him space...it is likely he will end things if you keep reaching out, not respecting what he wants and asking him questions that he does not have the answer to.
Yes you reaching out when he has asked for space is needy and clingy...its really very simple..give him space and do not reach out to him.
It just shows his confusion..it shows he still loves and cares but is scared. Let him be now.
I have given you my best thoughts and that is to give him the space he has asked for and not reach out, not ask him to tell you what he wants and to let him be. When you have the desire to reach out remember that isn't what he has asked for and could end things if he feels suffocated.
you can do this...trust in the love. Be strong!
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