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Hi.i have been dealing with a guy for 2 years..some form of communication everyday..Recently I discovered he was in a relationship..I contacted the female..a day later Another female contacted me saying they were together..Why would he drag me along all this time without telling me the truth knowing how I felt about him???

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He's my ex I broke up with him because he cheated but we still stayed in touch everyday for 2 years.

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