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My boyfriend of one month of relationship just said he needs time to work on his life before we are a couple again, what does that mean?

Expert's Assistant: The Psychologist will know what to do. Please tell me everything you can so the Psychologist can help you best.

My boyfriend has been divorced 4 months before we started dating. His ex wife left him for another man after being married for 27 yrs. We did rush pretty fast in our relationship that my insecities got in the way....now he wants time and space to work out his life before we are a couple again? What does that mean? How can I keep the relationship going?

Expert's Assistant: This sounds like a can of worms I'm glad not to have to open. The Psychologist will do a great job for you. Is there anything else important you think the Psychologist should know?

He did tell me he still loves me and cares very deeply for me but just needs time. How much time do I have to wait?

Submitted: 11 months ago.Category: Relationship
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