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I don't hear from her end that she desires the same as you. She wants to be playful and silly but without any attachment. She wants to be your friend but also flirt with you. If she wanted more than that, she would indicate that. If you can't be friends with her in this manner then you get to make that choice for yourself, but right now, I think you should focus on you and moving forward.
Let me know your thoughts.