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How can I win a woman back after I have failed "her tests"?

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How can I win a woman back after I have failed "her tests"? This woman had stood me up 2 twice, and I told her that I don't appreciate it and I didn't like being jerked around. Do I wait 30 days?
Submitted: 7 months ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  educatortech replied 7 months ago.

Hi, I'm Greg. Welcome to JustAnswer. I'm reviewing your question now, and will post back with your reply ASAP.

Expert:  educatortech replied 7 months ago.

The main thing in this circumstance is to give some time and wait to see if she is going to respond back to you. Is she still replying to your messages or does she ignore those as well? If she keeps standing you up and has these unreachable goals and "test" then this might not be a good sign for the long term. Has she had many long term relationships - if so, what were those people like? Do you have similar qualities?

Customer: replied 7 months ago.
I dumped her last night. I don't know about her previous relationships. I saw a cigarette burn on her chest, which means she's probably had some trauma in her life. Last week, she was responding to my communication. I was able to contact her yesterday, but she responded in a very brief way and then she hung up on me. Should I wait a month before contacting her?
Expert:  educatortech replied 7 months ago.

Yes, I would wait a period of time. Maybe during the break you can continue to look for others as well?