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I am sorry to hear of all of this confusion and sadness. She may have fallen in love with you but that does not mean she will be able to walk away from him or her family. Things often seem perfect when the affair is hidden and people dream and long to have that idyllic story book ending and then real life steps back in and it gets complicated. She may love you, but may not be able to bring herself to leave..it can feel scary to walk away from it all even with the love that exists between the two of you. The best you can do is to give her this time and space to sort things out for herself and let her decide what she desires to do. Very painful for you I know and so hard because there is no contact and your mind is going a million miles an hour, but at this point, it is truly all that can be done and if she does desire a life with you then she will make that happen. Even if she doesn't choose to be with you, it does not mean she hasn't loved you, it just may mean that the idea of walking away from her family is too great.
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Wishing you peace with all of this and hope it all turns out how you desire. Be well and thanks for taking care of the rating now.