Good evening and thank you so much for your message. I realize it's difficult to reach out. Please know I honor your courage.
My name is ***** ***** I am a psychotherapist in the Metro Boston area.
Ohhhhh sweet soul, what a complicated situation. It sounds like you and your children's father have a difficult history, each of you contributing to the overall breakdown. I understand your desire to have your ex back in your life but please....I beg you....get the help you need before considering returning to the relationship. You are a mother (with another child on the way) and need to be the best you can be--whether you decide to reunite or not. Please do this for you--for your children as well--not for him. It sounds like your ex has much to personal work to do as well. His behavior is beyond cruel and absolutely unnecessary.
Please take space from him--stay away and try to move on with your life. If both of you find your way back to each other in the future, after working on your own personal issues, so be in. Work on yourself. Get things in order and focus on yourself, your health and your children. You deserve a life of peace, minus this chaos.
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Please take good care of yourself and feel free to contact me with any questions you may have.