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Thanks for writing in...I don't see how she used you, so please explain a bit further. It sounds like you were both enjoying your time together and she enjoyed it the way it was. I do agree with you that talking things through to work it out is a great course of action, but her hurt may be preventing that from happening. Give her some time and then you may want to reach out again and let her know you miss her and sorry you both felt hurt and would like to get back to how things were and hope she would like that as well. But for now, give her some space to cool down.
I can understand how you might feel that way but let's assume that she enjoyed getting to the park on her own. I hear her being more connected to you then you may realize and I can't imagine her only interest was for these tickets.
I think her being angry after you told her you felt used may indicate that she wasn't using you and is upset that you believed that.
This cool off period could be good for both...so take a breather and then try to reach out again.
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I am sad for that for you...If it has been this long then she might not come back and sad that she did not want to talk it through and try and work it out. So for now then, time to pick up, dust off and try and heal from this.
I hear you and it has been a long time so the only choice you have now is to move forward. She has made her choice and it now much be respected.
I know it is hurtful but it is the only way now.
I would respect her wishes and move on.
you can't force someone to stay and you have reached out and she has made it clear what her wishes are so yes, while you are hurting, you must respect that and move forward. Feel what you feel and mourn this loss as that is the only option.
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