How JustAnswer Works:
  • Ask an Expert
    Experts are full of valuable knowledge and are ready to help with any question. Credentials confirmed by a Fortune 500 verification firm.
  • Get a Professional Answer
    Via email, text message, or notification as you wait on our site.
    Ask follow up questions if you need to.
  • 100% Satisfaction Guarantee
    Rate the answer you receive.
Ask TherapistJen Your Own Question
TherapistJen, LCSW, CPC
Category: Relationship
Satisfied Customers: 3385
Experience:  Licensed Clinical Social Worker
Type Your Relationship Question Here...
TherapistJen is online now
A new question is answered every 9 seconds

Ok I just recently started talking to this guy and i really

Customer Question

Ok I just recently started talking to this guy and i really like him a lot and we are basically the same person. All my friends tell me he likes me too based on certain subtle things he does but there is one major red flag! HIS EX... she texts him and calls him all the time and he replies... he told her about me and she knows we are seeing each other but she still calls him all the time and she's flying down in a couple of weeks... we've talked about it and he knows the entire situation bothers me but i don't know what to do.
Submitted: 1 year ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  TherapistJen replied 1 year ago.

Hi. I know how upsetting this may be, but try and remember how recent this is for both of you and so both of you come with a past of ex's and friends, etc. You both like each other and that is established. I would try as best you can to trust what he says and trust what you are both beginning to feel for one another and let things play out. If he wanted to be with her he rely on the fact that they aren't together. If you bolt now, then you lose the opportunity to ever really see if things could have developed more deeply. Stay the course, trust him and yourself and let things be without threatening to stop seeing him as that doesn't get you what you want and that is to be with him and see where this is going.

Expert:  TherapistJen replied 1 year ago.

Let me know if I can support you further. If all good for now, please click on the rating tab to rate my support. Thanks so much in advance.


Related Relationship Questions