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I am very sorry about your problem and can feel the pain. It is difficult to ascertain the exact issue as he never explained why his feeling went away just in a short time. There can be many reasons as you mentioned (legal fight with your ex fiance, low financial contribution, living with his parents, deal not realizing of previous home, financial burden, new home issues etc). I feel you have all the right to speak to him about sudden change. I believe your last dinner meeting did not give you a significant clue. Can there be another girl? Or all legal issues you were undergoing; were you not able to give him adequate attention? You can text her requesting him all the reasons which made his mind to change. I feel knowing that; you can offer him the explanation and also come out of this uncertain feeling. Knowing the exact reasons also would make your life far easier. I know, he may not give you all the explanation, but if you talk to him, there can be definite clues. So try to arrange a long meeting. That would help you in reconciling to the present situation and make up your mind. The crux is to talk to him to gather some clues or exact points which changed the feeling.
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