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I am a 34 year old single woman. I am having issues dating. I have been told I am attractive and pretty many times. However, I almost ever get approached by men. set up an online dating profile. I went on a recent date, one was with a 53 year old man who is having a difficult time dealing with his divorce and started to cry talking about it and he never called me again. The frustration has left me feeling very desperate. I posted provocative photos and went on a sex chat site that I would not normally ever dare go on. Just to get some attention. I know it is the wrong kind. I am desperately craving love and attention and no matter what I do, I am still alone. I tried a few meetups. But I have a very busy schedule and sometimes I am not able to go all the time. I live in the city, but I feel like I am completely invisible walking down the street. I am even having a difficult time making friends even with women my own age. I transferred to a new department and it was not a warm welcome. What advice can you give me? Should I just stop thinking about dating and men, focus on my hobbies and making new friends? It's difficult with feelings I have and surpressing the need to be with someone. I am currently losing weight, although, I am by no means fat or out of shape looking!
Thank you,
lost and sad
Submitted: 2 years ago.Category: Relationship
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