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I am sorry that your question was unanswered for long.
I am not very sure if I am exactly handling what you need to know or understand. But her behavior may to be due to a bit of insecurity, which may have creep in due to not courting her properly. In any relationship there are few things which are necessary;
1) A trust
2) A proper communication
3) Clearing of misunderstanding at the earliest, if that happens due to any circumstance.
My suggestion would be; tell her that you are unable to talk to her at this time, but also tell about the time when you would able to communicate her and explain all the reasons up to her satisfaction when you would be talking.
This will help in smoother your relationship.
Please feel free for your follow up questions.
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