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I have found out my husband has viagra...he even took one tonight and he is out... we haven't had sex since Dec 2015... he's been unemployed since August 2015 and been working on projects...I have 2 jobs working hard as a real estate agent and flight attendant and have 2 boys...I am discouraged and depresses been putting on extra weight...we have a been in a good place despite what we have been going through. We have been married almost 10yrs this July he has always had issues with my weight..I am hurt and pissed but I have been seeing that divorce is not always the best solution but I want better for myself... My best friend told me to take this negative energy and go take care of me and telling or confronting him will only be turned against me he knows how to tell a good lie (one of his bad qualities) I am very faithfull to my husband like I dream about him at night I KNOW I am a good wife and juss want to be treated better
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