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Based upon your message you have already heard for yourself that rushing your girlfriend does not work. I understand the pain is still raw, but if there is any hope of your girlfriend coming back to the relationship and being certain of her decision to continue the relationship you must give her time to sort out her feelings. I would suggest during this challenging time to surround yourself with friends and family, keep yourself busy so you wouldn't be tempted to reach out to your girlfriend before she has had the opportunity to figure out her feelings.