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I am in love with a guy who has an ex wife and he had a kid

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I am in love with a guy who has an ex wife and he had a kid with a 2nd woman and hasn't told his ex wife yet cause he is afraid she will not let him see his son . He tells me we will happen and to stay with him but it's hard for me to believe him I don't know what to do
Submitted: 1 year ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Anthony Bray, MD replied 1 year ago.


I would not wish to make any sweeping judgements as to your situation as I do not know you or your friend of course... It does sound to me to be a complex situation and I would have fear for your sake of risk of you being hurt emotionally in this relationship situation.

Does he still have involvement with wife for example?

Does he still have involvement with 2nd woman and his other child?

It seems suspicious that he has multiple partners and at least two children now....

How can he manage to be a fully devoted partner to you?

You may take your time and think things through...

You might consider consulting a counselor ....

There is no rush as you are not forced to make any decision today but I think that you have legitimate reason for concern.

My guess is that you may be best in the long run to find someone without all the drama and confusion and secrets ....

Proceed with caution is my sense ....

I hope that this is helpful for you

Let me know if you have further questions or concerns

I will be happy to get back with you

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Anthony Bray MD

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