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Guy says he dont speak to anyone else yet twice he has been

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Guy says he dont speak to anyone else yet twice he has been at my place gets phone notification says,..stupid emails then big rush to leave. I think he has someone else ?
Submitted: 1 year ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Tarra Bates-Duford replied 1 year ago.

There certainly seems like there is deception here, however in order to answer this question properly can you tell me more about your relationship with this man, are you dating or are in a committed relationship?

Customer: replied 1 year ago.
Committed relationship was his idea. He lives next door and it's been two months and has never slept over. He has suggested it then he leaves in couple hours. He did this two nights ago stayed an hour acted very aggravated then I said just go home and he did.
Customer: replied 1 year ago.
I've been dating this guy for 2 months. He works for shift I w...I have longer explanation as another question on here
Customer: replied 1 year ago.
If u can find that one it explains more
Expert:  Tarra Bates-Duford replied 1 year ago.

If you both are supposed to be in a committed relationship then there appears to be something he is not telling you. His behavior certainly sounds suspicious. Often when a partner is not being authentic with us there are often signs of deception, most of the time the other party attempts to rationalize the behavior or simply ignore it. In this case if his behavior is contrary to his words (suggesting a committed relationship but getting mysterious calls, leaving abruptly, etc.) it would warrant further look at whether or not a committed relationship is an option. You cannot have a committed relationship when there are trust issues, as every action and reaction would be questioned either verbally or mentally. Most of the time when we feel there is something going on, most likely it is.