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Hi Rachel, It sounds to me like he isn't as interested as he once was. I know you felt you were developing something nice but for whatever reason, he is not in that space right now...could be because of school work, could be because of something else. I think either way, you are going to feel the pain of the loss. It sounds to me like you won't be able to focus well unless you ask him how he feels. There really is no right or wrong way here...just about what will give you the most peace. If you reach out and he doesn't seem interested you are hurting. If you don't reach out, you are left wondering and you are hurting...I think either way you will feel some pain. If it were me, I would probably send a simple message saying that you were enjoying getting to know him and hope that could continue and that if he is no longer interested that is okay too, but just to let you know.
How does that sound for you?
Let me know your thoughts.