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Hi. This can be frustrating but it is very hard to make someone stop doing that if it has became an habit for a long period. The best is to simply explain her that you don't want to have the ghost/virtual-presence of that EX in your life all the time the same way you are not interrested to have phone call about credit card offer. Tell her that she's interesting enough alone as she is and don't need to exist trough someone else experiences.