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Jen Helant
Jen Helant, Counselor
Category: Relationship
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Experience:  I have a degree in psychology and worked with many couples. I am happily married and have been for 10 years.
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Married 17 years.3 kids.2 major ops related to cancer.Death

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Married 17 years.3 kids.2 major ops related to cancer.Death of relative and mothers hip op.Husband retired after long service.He started drinking.I felt shut out even though I tried to get through.Mum dragged him down to me and daily said to get divorced.Trusted a friend, who I found out was jealous..Felt so confused and lost the plot
Ending in divorce, which I regret.See him regularly.Days out with kids and talk and text.Want to get back together, but don't know the best approach.
Submitted: 2 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Customer: replied 2 years ago.
The shock of what happened made him stop drinking. Even I was in a state of shock.
Expert:  Jen Helant replied 2 years ago.

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