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My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and live together. We have had a lot of ups and downs, but I thought we had worked through them and moved on. Evidently not ... last week he told me that we are over. My Bipolar disease has caused a lot of issues with us. My mood swings when my medications aren't working, my depression episodes, etc. We do still live together, until I can save money to move out (I am on SSDI). It truly breaks my heart, because I do love him. I have decided to start dating other people, since he said it's over and would never marry me. I don't feel I should waste anymore of my time.
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Hello, I am sorry to hear that your boyfriend ended your relationship abruptly recently, I can understand how distressing this can be for you. I read through your entire description, but you did not pose a question...so may I ask what exactly is your relationship question that you would like assistance with today?
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Hello, I just wanted to check-up on you to see if you read my Info Request so that you could respond with what exactly is your question that you would like to ask.
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