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I have no doubt it is platonic. what I'm not comfortable or dont undrestand is he has had nothing but negative to tell me about them so than why even maintain a friendship? is it not healthier to move on and put past in the past? I know it bothers him that I'm selling my ex husbands house and we communicate only over the process of selling and offers, nothing personal. my boyfreind keeps reminding me he cant wait till its over and I dont communicate with my ex anymore. I have no problem with that. but when I ask him he should also do the same he tells me its different, he has come to a certain level of peace and beacuase each ex wife or an ex girlfriend represent a peace of his past and the fact that he has no children, he has the need to keep the past somewhat alive with a here and there phone call, email or meeting. I just dont get it...
well perhaps we both have insecurities. I also fee left out when I know there is communication with other women in his past and Im not included. with that do you think these are things we can work on or do you think our past experiences and insecurities are eventualy going to lead to a break up? (I also found out he had asked an ex that poped out again a few days ago to meet over a glass of vino...) lets just say I felt betrayed eventhough I knew he was not interested in her in any other way. that fact that he had kept it from me and I hapen to see the email when he was on his phone and questioned him. he said if he had told me about it he knew it would upset me so he decided its best to keep it from me...errr very confused.