Thanks for your reply,
but I snap easily with her, as she use a very insulting language with me
which I dont belive any one would stand , we have been married a year now,and it is just getting worse and worse.
she acts like she is a single, she wants to take all decisions by herself considering it is affecting her own life.
If I asked anything about her job, she would go crazy and accuse me to interfere in her job and then start the list of insults and challenging attitude
I can control myself for an extent but not to keep hearing the same insults in every conversation
It seems like we are in a war zone, everything can cause an explosion
just to be fair now she is facing some health problems (hormones issue)
, but the thing is she was like this before that and getting worse.
everything is out life is being affected.
she speaks to me like I am a her colleague or a stranger she just met
she doesnt speak to me and show her tenderness.
I feel sometimes when I talk to her like I am talking to one of my male friends
we were about to get divorce many times, and she always pushed me to reach the divorce point, then she starts to cry and beg me not to leave her
and she would promise to stop and that she does not know why she acts like this and push me to my limits while she knows she can get us divorced
but at that point she feels that she has to defend her self by being stubborn and escalating things more and more