Hi Chris. The chat ended so I'll finish off here in the question/answer format.
I think that you need to put your heart into this relationship with Amber. You have realized that this might be the right woman for you, that you really care about her deeply and in a significant way. Your gut instinct is telling you that you have a good chance with her.
You're right that it will mean taking a chance, cutting off from Alyssa. Yes, that's taking a chance. But Amber is worth it. And if you base her being worth it only on statistical odds, you'll never make the moves to actually win her. That's why I'm saying you will be taking a chance, but she's worth taking a chance on.
Okay, I wish you the very best!
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