Rafael M.T.Therapist says:8:03 PM
You need to choose what you want to believe and afford here, since depending on that your actions would follow. You cannot keep thinking she betrayed you, was not honest and more, knowing what she is feeling for this other man, and at the same time think and expect her to be like she was in the past, because she is not.
then please take an approach of trusting her and believing she is just fine and loving you and more even when you broke up, and keep sharing with her, or acknowledge all the changes and situations that happened, and be consistent with yourself. Either way, take full responsibility for your choices and actions. You do not want to keep fueling more than one version of reality, you need to choose one and stick to it and see what happens.
Only you know your feelings, what happened and only you know what you want to afford here or not, just be totally truthful with yourself and take consistent actions, being mindful to learn from the experience as it continue to develops by the way each of you shape it.
Does it make sense?
JACUSTOMER-4180xcr5- says:8:14 PM
U still there?
Rafael M.T.Therapist says:8:15 PM
Su re I am here
Cant' you see my text?