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My wife, at home during dinner, after a few drinks, said would

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My wife, at home during dinner, after a few drinks, said would you be surprised if I told you I had an sexual affair some years ago I said yes [ i thought I was married to Mother Superior, mass every day, religious meetings all during the lectures to children about sex before marriage} Then she said I did not have the affair because of my high morals and my religious beliefs but I would have if it were for not for them. My question is how physical and emotionally was she involved or was she just tempted ? XXX@XXXXXX.XXX
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Dear friend,

I believe that she was, under the influence of a few drinks, telling you that you have not been completely satisfying to her as her husband.

Because of her deep moral convictions and her honesty, I believe that she is telling you the truth. She may have been tempted and had the opportunity, but her entire self-discipline has been to resist temptation and to be honest and truthful.

Therefore, I am strongly inclined to believe that she is innocent of any wrongdoing.

I suggest that your redouble your efforts to support and honor her even more than you already do. If she knows that she is your beloved then she will never stray.

I shall keep you both in my prayers for a strong and eternal bond.

Warm regards,

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