Hi. I'm sorry that I was away yesterday and missed answering for her birthday.
It sounds as though she's trying to see if you're really being truthful with yourself about not taking her for granted and so whether she should give a relationship with you another chance. There is no way to prove this to her short term. It is a matter of doing things that help you recognize and remember that relationships are like flowering plants that you have to keep nurturing all the time or they die. Not like our favorite teams that are always just there, sometimes more satisfying, sometimes less, but always there when we want them.
So, if she's romantic, which most women are, it's never a wrong time to send some roses and send a note with them that you wanted to make her birthday last a little longer, so happy birthday again. Sending her a card was very nice. So, if you want, you can wait on the flowers for the weekend to wish her a nice weekend, for example.
Little things that make her know you are being creative for her sake, that you are thinking about her and that thinking about her makes you happy enough or caring enough to do something small right then is always appreciated by most women. It is what not being taken for granted is about. So, sending a nice web picture in an email or text, or flowers, or a dinner once in a while with some things you've thought of to talk about is always a way to win her heart!
I wish you the very best.
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