Deardebra : Thank you for your question.
Deardebra : When people go away it gives them time to think.
Deardebra : People are out of there natural element so they tend to feel different.
Deardebra : this would be a good time to show him you want to be a part if his life and he should show you how much he wants to be apart of yours.
Deardebra : i would start by texting small kind messages.
Deardebra : Like this France must be so beautiful. I am so happy that you get to see such an amazing place.
Deardebra : I just wanted to say for you to have a wonderful day and I can wait for you to tell me about it.
But will he answer? Am so scared he won't
Deardebra : The reason for simple positive messages is to just share each others day.
Deardebra : this way you both begin to develop a connection.
ok but am scared
will he answer or I won't try... can't feel bad again
Deardebra : I don't want you to be scared when you love someone you have to take risks.
Deardebra : You want him to be thinking of you while he is there.
Deardebra : then he will begin thinking that you are alway there for him and that your so supportive.
Deardebra : People connect by communication.
I 'll risk but he doesn't try....
if he doesn't reply it will be terrible....
I don't know if he's missing me at all
Deardebra : Even if he doesn't respond that's ok. It is important he just gets the message.
Deardebra : He will miss you because you are apart of his life.
Deardebra : You want him to know your thinking of him and wishing him well on his trip.
i texted him but now no reply
Deardebra : Just give him time. He might be busy or settling in.
Deardebra : he also might be thinking what to say.
He answered me yesterday night to text you suggested and even sent me a kiss.....Thnk you!!!